in the worldWhat is the most common interracial couples?
I actually studied this is my sociology class. The most common is caucasian man with asian woman.What is the most common interracial couples?
i work on an army base and it seems to be black men and white woman
=] i'd love to marry a black guy and have a little girl with nappy little ringlets (mainly cuz i already have unruly curly hair)
The most common I have seen would be black men and white women.
American.
Black men and white women
Black men with White or Asian women
Asian girl with white men.
i don't know but i think it's cute and their kids are the prettiest
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Please suggest some innovative game for couples dinner party?
Think%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;Whose line is it anyway?
You can figure out the rest.Please suggest some innovative game for couples dinner party?
The game Baulderdash is such a fun game!!!! BUT is usually individually played.
Taboo and Crainium are great team playing games, really fun for a dinner party.
I don't know if they need to break off into couples, but they have those 8 person dinner theater games in a box that are fun. I've been to one of those before.
These are some examples of those:
http://entertaining.about.com/od/murdermysteries/Murder_Mystery_Games.htm
http://www.murderpartygame.com/beauty tips
You can figure out the rest.Please suggest some innovative game for couples dinner party?
The game Baulderdash is such a fun game!!!! BUT is usually individually played.
Taboo and Crainium are great team playing games, really fun for a dinner party.
I don't know if they need to break off into couples, but they have those 8 person dinner theater games in a box that are fun. I've been to one of those before.
These are some examples of those:
http://entertaining.about.com/od/murdermysteries/Murder_Mystery_Games.htm
http://www.murderpartygame.com/
What do you think about interracial couples and their children?
Okay, or unnatural, and why? If you are in a relationship like this, do you find that people judge you?What do you think about interracial couples and their children?
Hard to believe in this day and age that that still happens. I work at a restaurant that does weddings, and I met with an interracial couple today. They have been together for years and have a 2 kids together. I didn't ask why they finally decided to tie the knot, but I could tell they were so compatible and happy together.What do you think about interracial couples and their children?
I don't have any problem with it at all. Sadly, it is the prejudices and attitudes of older generations that put all of the added pressure on a interracial couple and/or their children. It is so hard to find someone out there that truly loves you that there is no way you can worry about someones race or color. The only way that it will change is for more and more couples to have the strength to stay together so that interracial couples are accepted by all of us. It is a double edged sword because the couple faces grief from both sides... we have to learn to love all people and accept the choice that a loving couple has made.
Interracial relationships are often times hard for the couple because of the stares, comments, and other things that they get from society. It's only because society looks down on this, or rather more so with race looks down at this.
My personal opinion about interracial relationships is that they're amazing. To be able to date someone from a different race, and for it to work out, is really just a showing of true commitment to one another and sticking it out no matter what other's may think or say.
I am in an interracial relationship.
I don't see how any kind of love could be considered ';un-natural,'; unless you are ignorant.
I am sure people judge us, but neither of us give a damn about what others think. We're happy and in love. So what is it to anyone else?
Oh, and you asked about children--all of the interracial children I've seen are absolutely beautiful and are proud of their heritage...well, maybe not Tiger Woods.
Are we not all humans? Does this even have to be an issue anymore?
Every couple who is in a committed and valued relationship should be praised. It doesn't matter if one person is a different race than somebody else. I would be more concerned about how many people are getting divorced.
Every child is a miracle and piece of joy. Red and yellow, black and white, we are precious in His sight.
Judge that r-tards.
I do not see anything wrong with it, God loves us all as one, color of the skin makes absolutely no difference...
And the children born into a interracial couple are beautiful....
My daughter is married to a man of different skin color and their children are beautiful...
And I think of my son in law as one of my own children....
The individuals who have a problem with this need to mind their own business...
if an orange tabby cat and a black tabby cat get together and have kittens no one turns their head and calls it unnatural - both cats and humans are mammals - noting unnatural about it - it's just skin color - not two species like a rhino %26amp; a rattlesnake having little rattleosueruses...now that is something to be judged...
It's not unnatural but I would be disappointed if my children married outside of their race. Hate them or not love their children, NO, but disappointed YES. It's just like anything else your proved of. I'm proud of my race and would hope to instill some fiber, some pride, some something that would make my children feel the same way with out putting down another race.
Interracial couples do make wonderful kids. My sister is black and her husband is white, and they have 3 great kids.
I think interracial mixing is great. Where I'm from, it really doesn't matter. No one judges around here.
Even though kids aren't for me, biracial or not, I'm interested in being in an interracial relationships.
Love is love...It doesn't matter what color they are! Love is never unnatural! since you are in this kind of relationship, you should know if people judge you or mistreat you. My husband is black, I'm white, and I don't worry about what others think! If you worry, you won't ever be happy! Enjoy your life, your husband and your beautiful kids!
I驶m in an interracial relationship and we have children. No it驶s not unnatural and if people do judge you does it really matter ? If you spend your life worrying about what other people think and making decisions based on their opinions, you are living their life not your own
Eventually everyone in the world's gonna look like Tiger Woods or something. It's okay with me, and all the other people in this world will have to accept that fact. No incestual colony is gonna fix that.
I think most people judge inter racial couples but I try not to, heck!!! I know to inter racial couples that are great for each other and there nice people!
It is unnatural and when children are involved they are the ones who suffer.
Just as unnatural as a black dog and a white dog mating. They're the future.
It's fine with me. My sister is married to a hispanic and they have beautiful children.
They're beautiful.
I think each and every one of us has ';white'; or ';black'; blood in us from some time in history. How can we not?
I don't really think about it that much. But their kids, awww man, they are freakin' cute!!!!
my sons are mixed were raised with love. no one cared about who they were just.
I am sorry you live in such a backward country. It is not the same everywhere in the world.
Hard to believe in this day and age that that still happens. I work at a restaurant that does weddings, and I met with an interracial couple today. They have been together for years and have a 2 kids together. I didn't ask why they finally decided to tie the knot, but I could tell they were so compatible and happy together.What do you think about interracial couples and their children?
I don't have any problem with it at all. Sadly, it is the prejudices and attitudes of older generations that put all of the added pressure on a interracial couple and/or their children. It is so hard to find someone out there that truly loves you that there is no way you can worry about someones race or color. The only way that it will change is for more and more couples to have the strength to stay together so that interracial couples are accepted by all of us. It is a double edged sword because the couple faces grief from both sides... we have to learn to love all people and accept the choice that a loving couple has made.
Interracial relationships are often times hard for the couple because of the stares, comments, and other things that they get from society. It's only because society looks down on this, or rather more so with race looks down at this.
My personal opinion about interracial relationships is that they're amazing. To be able to date someone from a different race, and for it to work out, is really just a showing of true commitment to one another and sticking it out no matter what other's may think or say.
I am in an interracial relationship.
I don't see how any kind of love could be considered ';un-natural,'; unless you are ignorant.
I am sure people judge us, but neither of us give a damn about what others think. We're happy and in love. So what is it to anyone else?
Oh, and you asked about children--all of the interracial children I've seen are absolutely beautiful and are proud of their heritage...well, maybe not Tiger Woods.
Are we not all humans? Does this even have to be an issue anymore?
Every couple who is in a committed and valued relationship should be praised. It doesn't matter if one person is a different race than somebody else. I would be more concerned about how many people are getting divorced.
Every child is a miracle and piece of joy. Red and yellow, black and white, we are precious in His sight.
Judge that r-tards.
I do not see anything wrong with it, God loves us all as one, color of the skin makes absolutely no difference...
And the children born into a interracial couple are beautiful....
My daughter is married to a man of different skin color and their children are beautiful...
And I think of my son in law as one of my own children....
The individuals who have a problem with this need to mind their own business...
if an orange tabby cat and a black tabby cat get together and have kittens no one turns their head and calls it unnatural - both cats and humans are mammals - noting unnatural about it - it's just skin color - not two species like a rhino %26amp; a rattlesnake having little rattleosueruses...now that is something to be judged...
It's not unnatural but I would be disappointed if my children married outside of their race. Hate them or not love their children, NO, but disappointed YES. It's just like anything else your proved of. I'm proud of my race and would hope to instill some fiber, some pride, some something that would make my children feel the same way with out putting down another race.
Interracial couples do make wonderful kids. My sister is black and her husband is white, and they have 3 great kids.
I think interracial mixing is great. Where I'm from, it really doesn't matter. No one judges around here.
Even though kids aren't for me, biracial or not, I'm interested in being in an interracial relationships.
Love is love...It doesn't matter what color they are! Love is never unnatural! since you are in this kind of relationship, you should know if people judge you or mistreat you. My husband is black, I'm white, and I don't worry about what others think! If you worry, you won't ever be happy! Enjoy your life, your husband and your beautiful kids!
I驶m in an interracial relationship and we have children. No it驶s not unnatural and if people do judge you does it really matter ? If you spend your life worrying about what other people think and making decisions based on their opinions, you are living their life not your own
Eventually everyone in the world's gonna look like Tiger Woods or something. It's okay with me, and all the other people in this world will have to accept that fact. No incestual colony is gonna fix that.
I think most people judge inter racial couples but I try not to, heck!!! I know to inter racial couples that are great for each other and there nice people!
It is unnatural and when children are involved they are the ones who suffer.
Just as unnatural as a black dog and a white dog mating. They're the future.
It's fine with me. My sister is married to a hispanic and they have beautiful children.
They're beautiful.
I think each and every one of us has ';white'; or ';black'; blood in us from some time in history. How can we not?
I don't really think about it that much. But their kids, awww man, they are freakin' cute!!!!
my sons are mixed were raised with love. no one cared about who they were just.
I am sorry you live in such a backward country. It is not the same everywhere in the world.
What do you think about couples going outside of the relationship?
Some people say that infidelity is the worst thing you can do to your partner, but being dishonest about still wanting to be in that relationship in my opinion far surpasses that.....What do you think about couples going outside of the relationship?
I think when love comes to an end... both parts should sit down and talk honestly and confess that they are into other people... otherwise the entire realtionship turns into a mess. and it hurts!What do you think about couples going outside of the relationship?
You seem to have missed the obvious. If you don't want to be in the relationship then break up. Why do you have to chheat. And if you don't want to break up, but you want to cheat anyway and then justify it by saying that the relationship sucks, so i have a right to cheat, that makes you a hypocrite.
I think that would make the relationship title null and void. Relationship equals committment, dating around kind of means theres no committment to anyone or anything, so there's no relationship outside of a friendship with extras thrown in....in my opinion.
open relationship are cool if both people are willing...but there are dangers when you start this kind of thing...you could lose your significant other...
u want to know what i think? i think that that is stupid if you want to go outside of the relatrionship than u should not be in that relationship at all that a way tro get diseases and all kinds of ****
its fun while it lasts but in the end someone always ends up gettin hurt
If someone is going to cheat, they should stop, get out of their current relationship and than go screw around. It's that simple.
dude that still cheating ,look at it this way would you like it if ur partner cheated on u and then gave yuo something you didnt want for life
not really, infidelity means dishonesty about not liking the other person AND having sex with someone else AND lying to them about it AND not respecting them enuff to be honest about it. besides, if you're worried about being dishonest about not wanting to be in the relationship, do the honest thing and just break up. what are you doing in a relationship that isnt making you happy? its hypocritical to sleep with someone else just because you dont want to be alone, so you cling on to someone you dont even like. thats unfair on everyone, including the person you'd be having the affair with
I think when love comes to an end... both parts should sit down and talk honestly and confess that they are into other people... otherwise the entire realtionship turns into a mess. and it hurts!What do you think about couples going outside of the relationship?
You seem to have missed the obvious. If you don't want to be in the relationship then break up. Why do you have to chheat. And if you don't want to break up, but you want to cheat anyway and then justify it by saying that the relationship sucks, so i have a right to cheat, that makes you a hypocrite.
I think that would make the relationship title null and void. Relationship equals committment, dating around kind of means theres no committment to anyone or anything, so there's no relationship outside of a friendship with extras thrown in....in my opinion.
open relationship are cool if both people are willing...but there are dangers when you start this kind of thing...you could lose your significant other...
u want to know what i think? i think that that is stupid if you want to go outside of the relatrionship than u should not be in that relationship at all that a way tro get diseases and all kinds of ****
its fun while it lasts but in the end someone always ends up gettin hurt
If someone is going to cheat, they should stop, get out of their current relationship and than go screw around. It's that simple.
dude that still cheating ,look at it this way would you like it if ur partner cheated on u and then gave yuo something you didnt want for life
not really, infidelity means dishonesty about not liking the other person AND having sex with someone else AND lying to them about it AND not respecting them enuff to be honest about it. besides, if you're worried about being dishonest about not wanting to be in the relationship, do the honest thing and just break up. what are you doing in a relationship that isnt making you happy? its hypocritical to sleep with someone else just because you dont want to be alone, so you cling on to someone you dont even like. thats unfair on everyone, including the person you'd be having the affair with
Is it easier dual navy couples to be stationed together?
My boyfriend is in the Navy going to become a SEAL and we plan to get married...i was wondering if it would be easier to be together if i was to join the navy...i've considered it for years...but i was just wondering...because i want to spend as much time as i can with him. So would be easier if i just stayed out of the navy...or join???Is it easier dual navy couples to be stationed together?
If you aren't married before you get to bootcamp or ';A'; school, it can be very hard to get stationed together. There are regulations that keep you in a general area- but you can be separated by hours and several hundred miles. And they can take up to a year to do this- not including bootcamp, schools and special training, which can take up to a year as well. So you could be looking at a 2 year separation from the start. Not to mention this doesn't include deployments, so you could be separated by deployment (for him), then he returns and you leave- you could spend a year or more separated depending on your duty rotations.
Also, if he gets through SEAL training, his duty staions will be more limited as ';special forces'; than yours would. So, he may get his orders, but orders to that base or area may be impossible for you if there are no orders available there. As a SEAL, he will more likely to deploy for ';training ops'; and he could be gone for weeks with no ability to contact you- if you are on deployment, that will be even harder for contact between you two.
I don't want to sound mean, but enlisting is a big deal- you should do it ONLY for you, not to be close to your boyfriend/husband. it is your name and your agreement to the military that YOU have to commit to. Doing it for someone else could cause resentment if you don't like the things that happen to you/him/or your relationship. Also, to help make your chances better of being stationed in the same area, you may have to pick and MOS (job) that you may not like, and that can cause resentment as well.
If you want to enlist and be together- you need to see a recruiter and be signed WITH a ship date BEFORE he leaves! Once he leaves, it will be much harder to do any of this. And being married will help your chances as well. Marrying after enlistment will delay the entire process even more as your marriage license will have to be routed, and your name change will have to be approved and your service record will have to be updated before anything else can be done.
You also need to remember that there are fraternization rules in the military- so to keep from geeting in trouble for that, you have to be able to prove their was a relationship before the military. Especially if he becomes an officer and you are enlisted. That is a HUGE no-no in the military, across all branches. I can't tell you what would be easier for you, as no one knows your relationship better than you. bUt this is the facts, and you have to go from there. But, between you and me, dual-enlisted marriage is hard- I've done it!! The hard way!!!!!Is it easier dual navy couples to be stationed together?
No it wouldn't be easier just because you are married doesn't mean you will get stationed together. You can easily get stationed in two different locations. Remember as well that the percent that pass the SEAL training is very small so while he wants to do it he might not complete it. If he does then when he gets orders usually they are accompanied meaning that you can be together.
as a SEAL..assuming he is NOT one of the 85% that wash out ..his duty station locations will be Coronado or Little Creek.. that's it. YOU being in a different rating could be ANYWHERE.. and while both Coronado and LC are in High Fleet concentration areas you could just as easily find yourself in Mayport as Norfolk or Pearl Harbor as San Diego. or overseas.
If you aren't married before you get to bootcamp or ';A'; school, it can be very hard to get stationed together. There are regulations that keep you in a general area- but you can be separated by hours and several hundred miles. And they can take up to a year to do this- not including bootcamp, schools and special training, which can take up to a year as well. So you could be looking at a 2 year separation from the start. Not to mention this doesn't include deployments, so you could be separated by deployment (for him), then he returns and you leave- you could spend a year or more separated depending on your duty rotations.
Also, if he gets through SEAL training, his duty staions will be more limited as ';special forces'; than yours would. So, he may get his orders, but orders to that base or area may be impossible for you if there are no orders available there. As a SEAL, he will more likely to deploy for ';training ops'; and he could be gone for weeks with no ability to contact you- if you are on deployment, that will be even harder for contact between you two.
I don't want to sound mean, but enlisting is a big deal- you should do it ONLY for you, not to be close to your boyfriend/husband. it is your name and your agreement to the military that YOU have to commit to. Doing it for someone else could cause resentment if you don't like the things that happen to you/him/or your relationship. Also, to help make your chances better of being stationed in the same area, you may have to pick and MOS (job) that you may not like, and that can cause resentment as well.
If you want to enlist and be together- you need to see a recruiter and be signed WITH a ship date BEFORE he leaves! Once he leaves, it will be much harder to do any of this. And being married will help your chances as well. Marrying after enlistment will delay the entire process even more as your marriage license will have to be routed, and your name change will have to be approved and your service record will have to be updated before anything else can be done.
You also need to remember that there are fraternization rules in the military- so to keep from geeting in trouble for that, you have to be able to prove their was a relationship before the military. Especially if he becomes an officer and you are enlisted. That is a HUGE no-no in the military, across all branches. I can't tell you what would be easier for you, as no one knows your relationship better than you. bUt this is the facts, and you have to go from there. But, between you and me, dual-enlisted marriage is hard- I've done it!! The hard way!!!!!Is it easier dual navy couples to be stationed together?
No it wouldn't be easier just because you are married doesn't mean you will get stationed together. You can easily get stationed in two different locations. Remember as well that the percent that pass the SEAL training is very small so while he wants to do it he might not complete it. If he does then when he gets orders usually they are accompanied meaning that you can be together.
as a SEAL..assuming he is NOT one of the 85% that wash out ..his duty station locations will be Coronado or Little Creek.. that's it. YOU being in a different rating could be ANYWHERE.. and while both Coronado and LC are in High Fleet concentration areas you could just as easily find yourself in Mayport as Norfolk or Pearl Harbor as San Diego. or overseas.
Which out of the two is the most overrated: Celebrity babies or celebrity couples?
I'll have to say the babies. The couples don't bother me as much as the annoying nicknames the media gives them likeTomKat or Brangelina.Which out of the two is the most overrated: Celebrity babies or celebrity couples?
I get tired of it.....i think the babies are overrated! After all, what is so interesting about the babies....I see nothing at all interesting about them! I kind of do like reading about the celeb couples tho..lol!Which out of the two is the most overrated: Celebrity babies or celebrity couples?
All of it. Especially celebrity babies. Women have babies everyday. What makes it so special with celebrities? And celebrity couples annoy me too, because they don't last.
The celebrity babies don't know they're celebrities, and they're cute. The celebrity couples annoy me more. I absolutely detest Brad and Angelina, yet I think their kids are cute.
Celebrity offspring are way overrated. But having kids is overrated.
Celebrity couples.
The babies are foisted upon us by those annoying celebrity couples and a series of gossip mags that promote everything these sycophantic nimrods do
overrated?
how?
babies
babies..
babies, famous for being born...at least the celebs had to earn their place by doing all those nude scenes.
Agree with you on Babies.
Couples. Because they never last so who gives a care.
Yeah I would have to agree with you. People make such a huge deal just because two celebrities had a baby.
the babies....is like OMG putos....you actualy spent time putting up a show to show...us star babys...
i think couples
both, just another couple having a child
both. i hate how people just feed off of the lives of celebrities and every small thing they do is such a big deal
I get tired of it.....i think the babies are overrated! After all, what is so interesting about the babies....I see nothing at all interesting about them! I kind of do like reading about the celeb couples tho..lol!Which out of the two is the most overrated: Celebrity babies or celebrity couples?
All of it. Especially celebrity babies. Women have babies everyday. What makes it so special with celebrities? And celebrity couples annoy me too, because they don't last.
The celebrity babies don't know they're celebrities, and they're cute. The celebrity couples annoy me more. I absolutely detest Brad and Angelina, yet I think their kids are cute.
Celebrity offspring are way overrated. But having kids is overrated.
Celebrity couples.
The babies are foisted upon us by those annoying celebrity couples and a series of gossip mags that promote everything these sycophantic nimrods do
overrated?
how?
babies
babies..
babies, famous for being born...at least the celebs had to earn their place by doing all those nude scenes.
Agree with you on Babies.
Couples. Because they never last so who gives a care.
Yeah I would have to agree with you. People make such a huge deal just because two celebrities had a baby.
the babies....is like OMG putos....you actualy spent time putting up a show to show...us star babys...
i think couples
both, just another couple having a child
both. i hate how people just feed off of the lives of celebrities and every small thing they do is such a big deal
Why are some devistated infirtile couples?
ok with accepting it as a fact, even if their dream was to have a family.....while other couples (even those not infirtile) strive to adopt?Why are some devistated infirtile couples?
I accept that I am infertile and cannot have biological children. I AM eligible and able to adopt. If I was ineligible or unable to adopt, I would have to accept that, too. Adopting a child does not mean that I haven't accepted the fact of my infertility.Why are some devistated infirtile couples?
For some blood/dna is not everything. For those couples who cant have natural children and ONLY want natural children they aren鈥檛 going to look to adopt are they? In some cases they may know they would never be approved to adopt. Adoption is not for everyone, having kids period is not for everyone.
There are thousands and thousands of children, teens, toddlers and some babies that need to be adopted, that is a fact. For those couples who are willing to adopt a child after they have been deemed infertile. Being a parent a mommy or daddy is becomes more important. As far as those who are not infertile who choose to adopt well they want to give a home to again child(ren) that needed it. They might see no reason to bring more (or a great deal more) people into this already overpopulated plant.
Why are some people devastated by the fact that they are adopted, and cant accept that the decision was made and cant be changed, and continue to whine their way through life........................while other adoptees accept that what was done was done and get on with making the best life they can for themselves?
Your question has no point other than to insult and wound people already hurt by the fact that theyre infertile. Get over your pathetic little temper tantrum at life!! YOU HAVE NO RIGHT to continually attempt to hurt and discourage others.
Adoption can and does help thousands upon thousands of otherwise unwanted, yes I said unwanted!!, children have a life.
Everyone is different, you know that. Just like you have claimed that ';you would never adopt';, that does not mean everyone feels the same as you do. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and choices in this life. I wish people would start supporting others in this forum rather than bashing them all the time (not meant towards your question, just some answers I have read recently). Where's the love???? Geesh!
i don't understand your question. we can't afford invetro.
It depends on who they are. People react to things differently.
Hi,
I am sub-fertile, i really don't understand your question.
x
I felt as if I was broken. It's natural to procreate. What separates men and women is the ability to have children. From the time we are little girls we are ';trained'; to raise a family that's why we all played with dolls and played house. My husband wanted children and I wanted to give him children. To not be able to do what you are ';expected'; to do since childhood is devastating. I felt like I was failing my husband and our families. ( I eventually got over myself...my grief) but it is a process that is different for everybody.
Families are created in many different ways. Just because a couple is infertile doesn't mean that they can't or shouldn't be parents.
I am one of those infertile who tried for many years. We have decided to adopt, and older children at that. Do I still grieve not having a biological child? Yep. Will I cherish my adopted children? yep.
When people come into adoption like I have, it has to be okay to acknowledge the loss the feel. The children as well will feel their loss at losing their bio parents.
There are already enough kids on this planet and a surprising number of them are unwanted by their birth parents. Adoption seems like a perfect solution and with no stretch marks.
Different strokes for different folks...
i think a lot of them just dont think adoption is for them. or dont like the thought of IVF or donor sperm or eggs.. some people just want their ';own'; child and thats it. and for some women to them its about the experience of being pregnant.
because everyone is different; some have different goals, wants and needs in their lives; for some, getting an education and working 15 hrs a day in a job they love is far more important than having a family; others are very happy being a stay at home mom taking care of their families while other women want to climb to the top of the corporate ladder.
everyone has their own choices and they're not taking some lower class baby and snatching it for their very own -- look at sunny -- she says over and over how wealthy her bfamily was and still they didn't want her...so i think that's proof there.
why can't you accept people have different ideas?
how someone chooses to build their family as long as it is legal and ethical is no ones business but their own.
why can't some people accept the world is not black and white and not every situation is a one size fit's all? there are always different circumstances to every situation. you won't ever grow as a person if you can't look at every angle of something and keep assuming.
am i wrong for wanting to teach a child how to be a loving accpeting human being? am i wrong to teach my child how to handle opinions that are different from hers in an educated, but yet kind mannor? there's nothing wrong with wanting to be a parent.
accepting infertility and then adopting are two different things if done right. you must get past the fertility issues before you can bring any child into your home to raise.
i tried different fertility treatments and failed. so right now i am trying to lose a whole lot of weight and then we will try again. i am only 28 so i got time.
we would love to have children but if it never happens then thats okay.
the way i feel is i don't have a kid than i don't know whats its like. so i can't really cry for that kid that never happened.
my husband has a past so they would never let us adopt children.
It all depends on their state of mind.
because some feel that if they can't have their own children, then they don't need to have children.. that's okay
others, think about (what you seem to refuse to believe), the fact that there are thousands of children who NEED homes... there are children in foster care looking for a ';forever home';
So they say to themselves.. ';why not adopt?';
Ever heard of Spell Check?
they do, more then likely
they don't want to wait.
also its an ego thing.
but children are golden.
whom ever can afford
to care for them.
laneybeauty tips
I accept that I am infertile and cannot have biological children. I AM eligible and able to adopt. If I was ineligible or unable to adopt, I would have to accept that, too. Adopting a child does not mean that I haven't accepted the fact of my infertility.Why are some devistated infirtile couples?
For some blood/dna is not everything. For those couples who cant have natural children and ONLY want natural children they aren鈥檛 going to look to adopt are they? In some cases they may know they would never be approved to adopt. Adoption is not for everyone, having kids period is not for everyone.
There are thousands and thousands of children, teens, toddlers and some babies that need to be adopted, that is a fact. For those couples who are willing to adopt a child after they have been deemed infertile. Being a parent a mommy or daddy is becomes more important. As far as those who are not infertile who choose to adopt well they want to give a home to again child(ren) that needed it. They might see no reason to bring more (or a great deal more) people into this already overpopulated plant.
Why are some people devastated by the fact that they are adopted, and cant accept that the decision was made and cant be changed, and continue to whine their way through life........................while other adoptees accept that what was done was done and get on with making the best life they can for themselves?
Your question has no point other than to insult and wound people already hurt by the fact that theyre infertile. Get over your pathetic little temper tantrum at life!! YOU HAVE NO RIGHT to continually attempt to hurt and discourage others.
Adoption can and does help thousands upon thousands of otherwise unwanted, yes I said unwanted!!, children have a life.
Everyone is different, you know that. Just like you have claimed that ';you would never adopt';, that does not mean everyone feels the same as you do. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and choices in this life. I wish people would start supporting others in this forum rather than bashing them all the time (not meant towards your question, just some answers I have read recently). Where's the love???? Geesh!
i don't understand your question. we can't afford invetro.
It depends on who they are. People react to things differently.
Hi,
I am sub-fertile, i really don't understand your question.
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I felt as if I was broken. It's natural to procreate. What separates men and women is the ability to have children. From the time we are little girls we are ';trained'; to raise a family that's why we all played with dolls and played house. My husband wanted children and I wanted to give him children. To not be able to do what you are ';expected'; to do since childhood is devastating. I felt like I was failing my husband and our families. ( I eventually got over myself...my grief) but it is a process that is different for everybody.
Families are created in many different ways. Just because a couple is infertile doesn't mean that they can't or shouldn't be parents.
I am one of those infertile who tried for many years. We have decided to adopt, and older children at that. Do I still grieve not having a biological child? Yep. Will I cherish my adopted children? yep.
When people come into adoption like I have, it has to be okay to acknowledge the loss the feel. The children as well will feel their loss at losing their bio parents.
There are already enough kids on this planet and a surprising number of them are unwanted by their birth parents. Adoption seems like a perfect solution and with no stretch marks.
Different strokes for different folks...
i think a lot of them just dont think adoption is for them. or dont like the thought of IVF or donor sperm or eggs.. some people just want their ';own'; child and thats it. and for some women to them its about the experience of being pregnant.
because everyone is different; some have different goals, wants and needs in their lives; for some, getting an education and working 15 hrs a day in a job they love is far more important than having a family; others are very happy being a stay at home mom taking care of their families while other women want to climb to the top of the corporate ladder.
everyone has their own choices and they're not taking some lower class baby and snatching it for their very own -- look at sunny -- she says over and over how wealthy her bfamily was and still they didn't want her...so i think that's proof there.
why can't you accept people have different ideas?
how someone chooses to build their family as long as it is legal and ethical is no ones business but their own.
why can't some people accept the world is not black and white and not every situation is a one size fit's all? there are always different circumstances to every situation. you won't ever grow as a person if you can't look at every angle of something and keep assuming.
am i wrong for wanting to teach a child how to be a loving accpeting human being? am i wrong to teach my child how to handle opinions that are different from hers in an educated, but yet kind mannor? there's nothing wrong with wanting to be a parent.
accepting infertility and then adopting are two different things if done right. you must get past the fertility issues before you can bring any child into your home to raise.
i tried different fertility treatments and failed. so right now i am trying to lose a whole lot of weight and then we will try again. i am only 28 so i got time.
we would love to have children but if it never happens then thats okay.
the way i feel is i don't have a kid than i don't know whats its like. so i can't really cry for that kid that never happened.
my husband has a past so they would never let us adopt children.
It all depends on their state of mind.
because some feel that if they can't have their own children, then they don't need to have children.. that's okay
others, think about (what you seem to refuse to believe), the fact that there are thousands of children who NEED homes... there are children in foster care looking for a ';forever home';
So they say to themselves.. ';why not adopt?';
Ever heard of Spell Check?
they do, more then likely
they don't want to wait.
also its an ego thing.
but children are golden.
whom ever can afford
to care for them.
laney
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